THE TRUTH ABOUT FRIENDSHIPS, YOU WILL NEVER FORGET!
YOU ARE THE SUM OF THE FIVE PEOPLE YOU HANG AROUND…..
BIRDS OF A FEATHER, FLOCK TOGETHER….
IF SHE’S/HE’S ONE, YOU’RE ONE…
EVER HEARD OF THESE?
EVER WONDER WHY YOU HAVE THE FRIENDS YOU HAVE AND WHY THE FRIENDS YOU USED TO HAVE AREN’T YOUR FRIENDS NOW?
UPON REFLECTION, I CAME TO MANY CONCLUSIONS.
IN MY OPINION, OUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS STEADY CREATING EXPERIENCES BY TAKING NOTES ON OUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS, FEELINGS AND OF COURSE WORDS.
Now let’s begin.
THE BEGINNING😏
We ultimately don’t choose our family and relatives but they become our first friends believe it or not. We grow up with them, we may not like them, or we may not even spend time with them. Whether we like it or not, they become our first friends, (other than our siblings),
To my definition, a friend is someone you have fun with. So let’s clear that up now lol.
Anywho, in the beginning, our mind is developing programs (remembering and studying) our environment for us. This is the main reason why we end up being around our relatives, siblings, parents, etc. for the most part of our life.
Side-note: ever wondered why some fathers/mothers are not currently in their child’s life? Well let’s think of it this way. If that man or woman’s reality (program) is not used to being around that child, then it’s reality is telling the man or woman that the child isn’t important to its reality in that present moment…..think about that.
THE MIDDLE😉
So now that our subconscious mind has solidified our close relatives, and family members, now we end up getting into friendships and relationships. In my opinion, friendships are close relationships with a person or people that’s built upon mutual values.
Usually this happens as we enter school, we make friends who become lifelong friends simply because we have programmed ourselves to be around them. Plain and simple right?
Think back to when you were in 3rd grade, 6th grade, a freshman, or maybe even a senior in highschool, what about college? Most of your friends that are still around now are in your life simply because they are a subconscious program.
THE PLOT TWIST😳
It gets better.
Even though we don’t necessarily choose the schools we go to growing up, we do choose these things as adults. And once we set our minds on certain environments, habits, goals. We start having fun (making friends) with the people that vibrates on the frequency of that environment.
Now don’t get me wrong.
I’ve lost my friends along the way.
But i realized and accepted that it’s not entirely my fault.
I realized that certain faces and energy were my friends because of the environment I “lived” in……
The school i went to……
The people I hung around….
:)
So after I accepted that well sure I may not be friends with that person again, unlessssss we are vibrating on the same frequency again at a certain point, then there is no need to force a friendship…
That goes for a relationship, a job, career, your health, the way you parent and everything else in your reality.
Most times people breakup because one partner may be outgrowing the current environment.
Usually it’s ideal that both partners should be open to growth,
But ultimately one partner gets left behind in their programmed state, why the other moves on to another programmed state…….but that’s another post.
THE END📝
Friendships aren’t overrated, in my opinion.
They only become overrated when you force them.
One thing I value, is friendship. Simply because I enjoy having fun.
But as i started creating my reality consciously as a grown woman, and making decisions that interested me…
Guess what?
The so-called friends, relatives, relationships, etc I had started falling by the wayside.
And i can’t completely blam them. But I used to.
I used to be like, “well you made me feel like this and that is why we aren’t friends, buddies, partners, etc. anymore”.
When in reality, we aren’t around each other simply because we don’t share the same values……..
And I’m okay with that….
Because we will always attract the energy that we are,
Just make sure you’re aware of it….. Are you aware of it?
Until next time, keep seeking wisdom.
- xoxo J. 👀
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