There’s A Truth About Breakups That No One Talks About……….. PART 2

Welcome back,

Let’s jump right in!

A REFLECTION OF YOU

So I’ve mentioned in PART 1…

why is it that we tend to attract certain types of people?

As a woman, who is in a relationship with my current partner (just made 5 years last month), I believe we attract the type of people that we are…

You are essentially a reflection of your partner. 

Not only is that an observation, but we also attract to us what may also need to be healed within us. 

You get men and women who may say they broke up because the other person cheated. 

Im definitely not saying that that is okay, it’s not. 

But if you have a woman/man that has a jealousy wound/void/trauma within them, they will most likely attract someone who would trigger that and you know what happens from there.

The relationship is existing for a reason, the people in the relationship just has to mature to move to the next level. This is why certain individuals shouldn’t date because they’re mindset haven’t matured yet to focus on one person,, have the time they can’t focus on themselves.

SHADOW WORK

On the other hand, Well the person that got cheated on may be need to analyze certain things about themselves. Like what area in their life are they cheating themselves? Is there any insecurity that’s repelling the other person?

There are so many aspects that come into play when breakups happen. 

The main point is that if we are able to sit with ourselves, do shadow work, grow up and develop our mindset, then our reality has no other choice but to reflect it! 

If you are being very transparent with your partner, 

then there isn’t a reason for the other partner to cheat. 

And VICE VERSA. 

Most people become bitter after a breakup, when they are the one that didn’t try to work it out…..

ANYWHO… see you in PART 3

But Definitely comment if you’re brave…

What are your thoughts? Are Breakups over or underrated?

Until next time, keep seeking wisdom…..

- J. 👀